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What is peer pressure and how can I control it?
Peer pressure is when your friends or partner make you feel that you ought to be doing something that you don’t really want to do or that you’re not ready for. For example, you can be made to feel like you should have already lost your virginity or be sleeping with a partner after a certain length of time dating. Remember though, that having sex just to keep up with your friends, or to make your partner happy, isn’t a good enough reason.
Sex is a big deal for everybody, even those who seem confident and casual about it, and you should only do it when you feel ready and you’re with someone who you trust and respect.
Losing your virginity or having sex for the first time with a new partner can be a nice experience that you’ll look back on with a smile, but if you have sex before you are ready, you might regret it.
Instead of doing what your friends expect, or giving in to a pushy partner, think about what you really want and take all the time you need before you make the big decision. If you’re not sure whether you are ready or not, then chances are you probably aren’t. It is not a good idea to rush into something you are not sure about, and if you are thinking about having sex, take the time to consider using contraception to protect against unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections (STIs).
Most people experience peer pressure at some time or another, so remember that you’re not alone. Thinking through the implications of having sex and why you want to wait, can help you feel more satisfied and confident about sticking by your decision. It may be hard to resist peer pressure and to stand by what you want and believe in, but you may feel much better knowing you are not rushing into something you are not sure about and earn respect from others.
Further information.
http://www.reachout.com.au »
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